My best guy friend told me he likes me and has asked me out and I finally said yes so we're going on a date this weekend. Today he was a bit bothered because I kept referring to him as a friend & I guess he doesn't want to go back to the friendzone or whatever. So tomorrow I'm going to say sorry for calling him a friend so many times. Then I'll be like, "hey do friends kiss? Because if they don't then I don't want to be your friend" Then kiss him. I'm so corny I know. I hate myself 😂 But I still want to do it! I'm kind of nervous because I have never kissed anybody before and neither has he. What if we both just suck at it? We could get better at it later but still.
So yeah, what would you think if a girl kisses you first? Is it weird? Any tips for me?
He literally just texted me saying he really wants to kiss me, so there's that
... and I don't know what to reply because now he's going to know and I wanted it to be spontaneous! 😣
I love it! I think you should do it. Sometimes guys can be complete idiots about making the first move and have to be saved from their own stupidity by the girl. So just do it! That will break the barrier and --- hopefully --- he'll take it from there!
That would be legendary! I haven't kissed anyone before either, just never found the right girl. But your plan sounds amazing! I wouldn't find that weird at all. Especially if you want to ensure him you don't want to be in the friend zone.
I can't speak for anyone else but I'd be incredibly happy! Lol so much of dating is on the guy, a holdover from history when men made all the decisions. It's stressful trying to figure out when to go in for the kiss, when do I hold her hand, what the hell are we about to have sex? Oh wait no we aren't, wait yes we are? Dammit! You should be able to just kiss a guy if you want to, I mean of course if you feel he wants to kiss you. Don't give gender stereotypes any mind, a woman can plan dates and make all the moves just as any man does and hell I for one would be thankful to share the load because that's what a real relationship is anyhow. It's sharing responsibility and being equal partners and working together and all that jazz. Kiss him! Life's too short, crazy, and shitty to not try to find some nice moments to share with someone you got feelings for. Enjoy it because I'm sure he wants to kiss you but he's probably wrapped up in indecision about where you guys stand. Make a firm declarative statement with your kiss and for the sake of hopeless romantics like myself everywhere, use that exact line because cheezy corny lines like that give me hope for the future of romance in this world lol. Good luck and enjoy yourself!