We knew eachother for like a month, then she came over and we were cuddling on the couch etc, and then she started calling me in the morning and evening, but then randomly, she has stopped talking to me, like she won't answer my texts (havnt called her), if I was in her shoes, i still can't think why she is doing this.. Help please!
Most Helpful Girl
It's called "Ghosting" and it suck's monkey ball's. It's an immature pu**y way to not tell you they are interested anymore for whatever reason... instead of manning up and telling you like an adult face to face. Trust me kid you are better off, most of these people do the 'Boomerang effect" come right back, hell even say how sorry she is if you are lucky!.. and repeat this over and over again. Why? because she can and she know's you will take her back each time. And you are all heart broken and losing sleep over a jerk or bitch who is napping like a baby. Some do it for enjoyment like getting a kick out of it. Been there and done that, learn from my mistake. If there is one thing I loathe in this world it is a man or woman opening another's heart with no intention's on ever loving them! The best solution is to delete her from your mind and move on. Then again she could be scared and feel you two are moving way too fast... yet why not tell you this instead of ignoring you like a child that she is. People like this don't care about sweat pea's like you, they take advantage, I've never met someone legitly into another yet keep's them in a mental and emotional thrall. This is how "COWARDS'' play the game these day's. I know you might want closure if so, but sometime's we don't get it. You have to stop romanticizing those who are hurting you. I think... no I know you know this is a possibility as to what has happened. You're a pink starburst kid, don't let anyone treat you like a yellow one #Namaste0
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Most Helpful Guy
Fck her move on. She lost interest in you.. Nothing you can do to win her back. You need to let her know that you won't accept being treated the way you are by leaving. The most powerful negotiating stance in a relationship is the ability to walk away and mean it. By doing that you are letting her know you have value and other options. Here is what you do..
>Approach her with the situation.. don't beat around the bush say exactly what you said here and do it in person.. not over text. Say it with confidence. Don't give into her evasiveness.
>If she answeres honestly then you stay and try and make it work.. if she responds by being evasive despite all your efforts to get it out of her.. you walk away,.. that means she is probabaly fucking some other guy,
WORST thing you can do is what you are doing right now. Stop calling. Stop fcking texting. it's cringe dude. Have some respect for yourself. You are actually making her want to be further away from you when you do this. Be straight forward and if she doesn't give you the response that you want then you fcking dip because you got 10 other bitches on the side. Goodluck boyo0
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