I have two girls that both really like/love me. I really like/love them both. I don't want to sound like a pig though when I am saying this kus I'm not that kind of guy. I love one for certain reasons that make her special to me of course and I love the other one for certain reasons that make her special to me also. I am in france till may 27th so take that into account when thinking about what has happened. The first girl was going through some things in her life and out of the blue started dating a guy at my boarding school. I was kind of hurt and angry and sad but I was in france and we wouldn't be dating until I got back so I couldn't do much from france anyways also. She said she needed a shoulder so I've let is slide. She recently went to this therapy program in hawaii because things got worse somehow at school. So she has and will be gone for 2 months. I then started talking to another girl that will be going to my boarding school next year who visited during the winter for a trimester. We connected and now I have both girls that really like me. For some reason I don't trust the first girl as much as the second because of what she did with the whole dating thing. The first girl recently also had her heart broken with the last guy she was with, after 5 months he just turned douche on her and she never went back. I feel like from all the stuff I've said to the first girl, if I didn't date her at least for sometime I would break her heart. And I don't want to lose this other girl in the process. I still have 2 more months in france but I need to start thinking about what to do because as you can kind of tell, I don't know what to do! Please help me because I don't want to break a girls heart that I love but can't be with! HELP!
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Nothing any of us say is going to help you. You know these girls better than we ever will, and it doesn't matter how many times you explain to us. This a decision only you can make.
If you still can't decide after giving it a lot of thought, just go with the one with the biggest ass! xD I mean, come on... you're a guy. And that's what all guys do, right? :'D Just kidding. :I
Seriously though, don't worry about breaking someone's heart because you had to pick someone else. Better a broken heart, than an unhappy relationship. Pick the girl you think you'd be happiest with, and go with her, regardless of how the other one will take it. The main factor I'd consider is which one of the two is the one you know best.
And hey, there's no reason not to trust the first girl just because she dated some guy while you were away. Because when you left to France, she wasn't your girlfriend. That gives her the right to date someone else, so don't be too hard on her if she got with some guy while you were gone. If you see she still likes you, there's no reason why you should trust her less than the other girl.2