I talked this girl on tinder for a couple weeks before arranging us to go on a date. I've learned from previous experiences to ask the girl what general area she lived in. Well this one claimed she lived in the same city as me. So I set up a date with her and we have trouble setting up a date location. I suggest we meet someone close by and she says we can meet somewhere that's like 45 minutes away from me. Turns out she lives in a different city and she only comes to my city to visit her parents. I said fine, but she has to tell me the address of which ice cream shop cause she mentioned we meet at one off a main highway, which there is no telling how many are off of this highway.
So we finally setup a date after me being confused on where to meet. We agree to meet at the ice cream shop 10 minutes from my house. Well I text her 20 minutes before leaving, at this point I've already taken a shower and changed into decent clothes. Then she texts me back saying she can't make it, but wait it gets better. She reschedules later that night at like 2am and says can we meet in the morning? I text her back later that afternoon saying I was going to be busy the next few days, so then she says oh she's going back to school for the summer that's in a city 4hrs away. So now I text her and ask why she wanted to go on a date with me if she was leaving in two weeks. Why did this girl waste my time like this?
Most Helpful Girl
Because she lost interest. Would you rather she 'waste your time' by bailing on plans, or waste your time by showing up despite not truly being interested?0
Most Helpful Guy
she's just playing games. Let it go. Happens...1