So I bought my girlfriend a nice necklace. Real silver, fit perfectly it seemed. As I gave her the box she just took it, opened it and gave it back saying she didn't have room to hold it at the moment.
I was puzzled but I took it back, and she "forgot" to take it from me later. I sorta made her take it the next day, and she never wears it...
She claims she likes it but I don't know. She wears this other necklace a lot, from Walmart or something cheap. Like wtf? Something from Walmart is more important than something I earned up for?
I also gave her other things for our monthly 'anniversary' and she just stuffed it into her backpack and never thanked me or texted me about them. It just seemed to never happened.
Should I be concerned with this? I need opinions pls I'm so lost/hurt.
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Should you be concerned with this? Was that a trick question?
You've obviously bought into the nice guy syndrome thinking that's what women respond to. You are wrong. Unfortunately, you would get more attention and care from her if you ignored her for a day or two or stopped being so reliable and predictable.
In short, this girl does not give a crap about you or your presents, takes you for granted and sees you as too nice.
I know you are lost / hurt but I only serve up the truth. It is never pretty and it never makes you feel great.
Another piece of advice. Pay no attention to what women tell you or say, only pay attention to what they do. In your example, she says she likes the necklace but what is she doing? What do her actions tell you? they tell you that what she says is bs because she never wears it.
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