I've never heard anything so ridiculous in my entire life. What school did your friends go to. You have standards, you shouldn't have to lower them to improve your success rate with women. I also have standards, personality wise but no one has met them yet. And guess what, I never intend on lowering mine. Why settle for second best? Lol. How exactly do you think the girl that isn't physically fit is going to feel when she finds out that your were just not that into her anyway. Then all she hears is, oh why the fuck is he with her? He's really buff and she isn't. Nah, I wouldn't advise that at all. Its not unrealistic to want a girl who keeps herself in good shape. I mean if she doesn't enjoy hitting the gym or isn't a fitness fanatic, she's hardly going to want to work out with you. Your better finding someone who has this in common with you. That way you can spnd more time together.
I don't see why. If you workout and remain fit obviously you'd want partner with the same outlook. I don't see why that would be unreasonable. How tall are you anyway? As long as you're taller than girls, height shouldn't be an issue.
So if she's not fit right now (not fat just not as fit as you), but has a pretty face and awesome personality, you would still reject her? I think that's a bit shallow. Anyone can get fit, we just need a motivation.
I'll take me for example. I am good looking but I'm not really investing in fitness at the moment. I am very busy with my work and with other important stuff, so I just want to relax when I'm free. I am single and happy that way, so I don't feel the need to get fit as fuck for someone. But recently I met a really cute guy who IS fit as fuck (and he's also short lol) and, believing that he's into me and that we're gonna date, I got a huge motivation to start working out. So I did for awhile, until I realized he was leading me on and he doesn't want me. My motivation disappeared and I stopped working out. But damn, if we did date, I bet my ass I would be get in a perfect shape. Wouldn't be the first time.
Maybe he rejected me because he has same standards as you...
If her being in shape if something that's really important to you then you can't help that dude, especially when it has to do with common interests of staying in shape. I think it's totally okay to have preferences as long as you're willing to hold out for them and can respect people as people even if they don't meet your standards (i. e. you'd be friends with a girl that wasn't in shape because you thought she was cool, but didn't want to date her)
Same for girls who like taller guys. Just is what it is.
no it's not, you sound like my sister. she's not in shape herself, she's short and fat but she lifts so she thinks because she lifts she deserves a guy who also lifts, but she doesn't want a short fat guy like herself. I think if you want a certain type of person, you have to look a certain way yourself on the body in order to get with that person.
Im not being cheesy here but a girl isn't a car or a fashionable trinket. she's a human being like you. You might fall head over heels with a plain girl. there's much more to people than looks. I think it is unreasonable. Already your attitude is limiting your own happiness to a narrow band of people. Get dating out of your head. Just talk to girls with no ambition behind it. You'll meet a great one when you least expect it.