No... I would never think that. I would just think he/she is an introvert and either more focused on work or studies than building relationships.
But unfortunately relationships are the key to happiness (or misery), so having very good ones is very important.
Having that said, i would be their friend but it would be nice if he/she has at least ONE other very good /close friend.. otherwise you become too attached/dependent and needy upon one person and if anything ever happens, it will almost feel like the lost/death of a dear person - not recommended. So having a healthy social circle or people whom you talk to is very important (whether online or in person).
As for apps, well there is Tinder and Happn (although u should specify u only look for friends since they are dating apps and I don't know what "social" apps are there ONLY for friendships... I knew a few back in the Netherlands but I don't know if there are any in general... maybe u can tell me/us when u find some! :D ehhehe
About the only thing that would make me think she was a loser in this would be if the reason she didn't have friends was because she was constantly causing drama, manipulating them, treating them like dirt, or otherwise screwing people over constantly.
If that's not the reason she don't have many/any friends, then I really don't care. She could be more career focused, or have kids that need more attention, or just not sociable, or comfortable around numerous people. Nothing wrong with that at all.
Not at all. In fact, I would love to have a SO who just has a few close friends, rather than a ton of friends. It would make spending time with each other that much easier. I dated a girl who had a more friends than the average person. A handful backstabbed her, many weren't "true friends," and a few of them weren't even that close to her.
When it comes to friends, quantity isn't important. It's the quality of your relationship with them that matters most.
No I wouldn't think they were a loser if they had one or two friends. I myself have a best friend who lives half way across the country, my other friends which are really two people only hangout to play sports, smoke weed or watch movies. No I don't think their are, i'm sick of people and wasting my time honestly
No since neither of us has many friends. As teenagers most think they need to have more and more and more people in their life they call their friend. As life goes on you realize who are your true friends, who are aquiantances and who are meant for a period of time and then to just move on down a path you might never cross again or if you do cross paths again it might not be at the same point and time.
No I don't have many freind and most if the girls i dated liked it lol one of them interduced me to her freinds. Somehow i always end up with sociable women but honstly i would prefer a girl who is a loner like me because would make me feel like she is more independent and not a follower for her freinds.
No, I don't care either way. I am happy independent because the majority of guys don't know how to be friends. Whenever they caught me by myself, most of them just look the other way and ran but I didn't care anyways because I'd rather be masculine than feminine. Most guys these days leach onto their buds and I always see girls independent. I don't know why but shit happens and being independent as well as confident is the greatest traits for a man can have because it's fun, it's sexy and I love them so much.
Well losers also have many friends , someone that has very less friends or hasn't must not called loser , maybe he or she is very shy or aren't into social interaction that much , or maybe that poor person have serious mental problems that makes him or her that way since birth.
i may think that there could be a reason why they dont have a lot of friends. i wouldn't think they're a loser per se. if they were I probably wouldn't have dated them and starting a relationship with antisocial people can be pretty challenging anyway
Not at all. My boyfriend told me I was his best friend before we started going out and I felt the same about him. I know he does have a few friends but I think he has more on Xbox than in real life whereas I just have friends in real life but am not super close to any of them though some I am closer to than others.
I'm not sure how many friends we each have or who has the most close friends in real life but even if he doesn't have many friends, that doesn't make me think of him as a loser or anything, I think it's pretty normal to just have a handful of friends or 1 or 2 close ones.
I am pretty friendly and outgoing so I would not have much in common with him, however, I have dated and mated a few Who... Weren't very social. No, not a 'Loser' at all. Just an Introvert a bit. I know a few people who are Extremely like this and never even Cared to get married. I would Suggest Facebook is the Best from the Rest 'To make friends.' A man from Egypt had once upon a time Found me on there and we Ended up Tying the knot in Egypt but sadly, we didn't live happily ever after... BTW: He was Shy Guy but I brought out the Best in him. I was his... Best friend to the End. Good luck. xx
No, I don't consider them a loser. Lots of acquaintances but only one or two close friends seems to be the norm. I personally don't have a lot of close friends, but I have tons of acquaintances. My boyfriend has one friend he's been BFFs with for 20+ years.
Core friendships last, but casual ones are very fluid.
Do you know how many of the population identifies with being an introvert, aka someone who doesn't particularly like or require social interaction or social stimulation to feel fulfilled or entertained? Are we all to be considered losers because we prefer solitude or are very selective in our friends?
no. I was very social and fun and easily fit in with people for a long time. I just chose to become a hermit in response to life. I still have goals and a purpose and find fun unorthodox things to do to keep busy but just prefer to be alone or with strangers. I just like to go unknown. I may be considered a loser in the eyes of society as most i hang out with dont know me but that doesn't actually make me a looser. It just makes me a bit disconnected and unknown. I still have the same mindset as back then its just not so obvious.
No. Because I don't. I am shy and a little introverted and it is in our nature to have a few close friends and not a large group of social friends. I fit that to a tee. So, I would not mind if guys did or didn't have a lot of friends. Once you get older I feel like people get married and lose touch and end up keeping a few close friends so it is almost the norm for me and people my age to have less.
No I wouldn't judge them based on how many friends they have. They could have 3, 2, or 1 or maybe not any friends but I wouldn't consider them a loser. I personally don't have a lot of friends. But there are social apps out there to help you make friends. You just have to be cautious about who you speak to you and don't trust people so easily online because you never know who you are speaking to.
my boyfriend dont have many friends, mots of them in an other city, country or people he met online so only chat with. he considers me as his best friend and we both like to hang out together, he says he is a bit antisocial cause he likes to stay in but he socializes well. anyway i dont consider him a looser at all, its just his personnality, im like that too so
No, why would I think that? Friends don't define who you are, you define yourself. But it is nice to have 5 friends to go out with from time to time but you can have 1000 friends but only 1 will be your best friend.
There are some apps out there, but you have to be careful who you speak to.
Technically yes, but I've never liked technical "winners" because they tend to be self righteous, petty, and naive about what the real world is really like. They still live in a bubble of their praises
I'm kinda asocial and liver-in-mind, so i don' have many friends but it doesn't mean i'm not funny or smart or don't know how to act popular. Only i deserve it to people I feel connected, even if i'm kind with everyone. I hope guys (and girls) won't be influnced by these superficial parametres.
No because I don't have many friends either. I don't like having acquaintances, I like a few close friends. I'm very loyal and friendships take effort and energy so I don't bother with many. I'd be able to relate to a guy who feels the same way. It might mean I get to see him more which is nice, and I wouldn't have to deal with meeting too many people. lol I would like it if I was his best friend because I'd want him to be mine.