I went to a community college and I am open to dating. I'm 24 and I went to transfer orientation and the guys I met were like 19-21. I'm not looking to hook up. I would like a relationship but that does not mean I'm willing to date just anyone. I'm not desperate. I get told that I'm attractive
Going to a university, what should I expect from men in terms of dating?
What Guys Said 8
I'm going to university in the fall. Turning 23 in July.. I made a question on it a while ago.. Not sure if it would help you any but here..
I know I'm above average in looks as well.. not desperate by any means. That being said... personally I'm making it a goal to stop hooking up so mindlessly and maybe try to find a girl with some substance. It's a surprise that I'm still disease free 😂 That's just me though. Most uni brahs are trying to fuck as much as they can.0
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I would keep my expectations low, especially given what you're looking for and the fact that you're dealing with 19-21-year old dudes.0
You're expecting too much.
No guy wants to be locked down in a relationship at uni.0
comes when you least expect it0
What should you expect? Think of a rock, now toss that rock down a manhole, listen to it bounce about in the sewage. When it finally comes to a stop near all of the worlds waste material, keep that picture in mind. You got it? Good now focus... still got the picture of the rock?
Now lower your expectations so they are lower than that sewage covered rock and you might come close to the expectations you should have with dating and university.0
What Girls Said 1
It's like anywhere else. The experience will be what you make it. College doesn't automatically mean dudes are going to be all over you0
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