Say it or show it; either way you have to take the risk and explicitly let him know how you feel. This whole ''how do I signal my intent without explicitly signaling my intent'' is something a lot of people inexperienced at dating try to do, because it feels safer and has deniability if the other person doesn't reciprocate.
The problem with that strategy is that it usually doesn't work: the other person isn't a mind reader, and may be just as afraid of taking the risk of making the first move as you are.
Keep it simple at first and make up excuses to get him alone with plausible deniability, then ramp up the flirting.
Wishing you the best of luck.
Flirt first, then tell him something like "you just make me feel like giving you a sweet kiss"! Then if he reacts positively, you have your permission, swoop in for your reward. Then start talking to him about a future, a sin relationship. If that's your motivation.
I'm not really a fan of grabbing people and doing things to them against their will, but it's your arse that will be thrown in jail for assault, not mine.
TECHNICALLY that could be considered sexual assault, and I think a lot of guys here are bitter because although they'd do the same thing, they feel like as guys, people are more likely too see it as a sexual attack rather than a romantic gesture, than if a woman did it.
but if you're sure he likes you, go for it-just try not to be tooo forceful, and just lean in for it rather than grabbing him lol
honestly id be pretty shocked if this happened. The first thing i;d think is "okay... she could have just talked to me about it first." he's probably not going to see it as hot and spontaneous and make you more attractive, he'll probably just wonder why you did it in such a weird way
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Had that too. Not a good plan. Make sure he likes you first, or you'll get rejected and embarrass yourself.
Depends. Does he like you back?
But anyway, if you want to do it, go for it. Most guys totally love it when a girl makes the first move
If a guy did the same thing to a girl it would be considered sexual assault and maybe even attempted rape...
Dont be a fucking idiot.. Just because you're a woman dosen't make that okay...
Yes, it is.
First of all you can make things awkward even if he is into you. And if he isn't, things can backfire badly.
Do it! Treat life like a chick flick! Everyone's afraid of everything these days. Pussies lol
If he's that slow, then maybe you should be the one to initiate.
Umm, you need to see that he sending positive signal first. Don't just suddenly do it.
Same thing can be apply to a woman. Guy, if you want to do it, make sure she giving positive signal. Then go ahead and go for it.
Grab his ass cheek first, then use chloroform, it works everytime for me.
That's sexual assault and not ok.
Ask him on a date. For all you know he'll say yes... or no and you'll feel like an idiot for the way you were going to act.
Hey.. I want to do this to my crush too! But , i'm not that pretty so he might reject me :(
Go for the flirting first. Most likely he has no idea you like him so the shock would definitely turn him off of you.
Don't do that. Just give him hints that you want him to kiss you. Look into his eyes, glance at his lips. Guys take note of these things, and if they're willing to kiss you, they will go along with it.
This is one of those situations where it would be really gross if the genders were swapped
It can go one of two ways...
It's not horrible. I guess it depends on what kind of guy he is. Maybe try to start up a conversation or ask him out first.
If you know that he likes you, go for it
I wish I could do this to my crush.😧😧
Do it. :-)
just ask him out instead.
No, do it
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