I met this guy at work... I could tell he kept finding ways to talk to me but was really shy. We always took late lunches and happened to be in the break room alone most days. We eventually started talking and ended up eating together every day. This led to him asking for my number and is seeing each other outside of work. We get along really well and always talk. Soon thereafter sexual tension became a daily card on the table. We ended up sleeping together and have since slept together a few times a week. So I guess we are friends with benefits? He has told me that he doesn't want a relationship and that's perfectly fine with me because I don't want to be in a serious relationship either. But he said he wants to see how things go as our relationship develops since he's not one that jumps into things. For the past few weeks he has been introducing me to meet his friends and his mom knows about me as well, I just don't know how much. All of his friends like me and have added me social media outlets. He tells me I'm perfect (body and personality wise) and beautiful and it's a plus that all of his friends he introduces me to really like me. But when his friends ask who I am after I leave, he says I'm his friend. And I recently asked him what he wants because his actions and PDA don't match his words.. he knows we are more than friends and his friends do too because they assume we are together. His response when I asked him: our relationship is complicated. What does that mean? Can someone decode his behavior and tell me what they think he is thinking? I told him I don't want a commitment but given our connection it would be nice to be introduced as, "the girl I'm dating" not "my friend". I like him a lot but still don't want a committed relationship- Dating doesn't have a commitment either and doesn't make me feel so disposable either. Help?
He says our relationship is complicated.. wth does that mean?
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