Most of us understand that you don't want a guy who expects to have sex on the first date. Or on the second date. And most of you don't follow the three date rule. But, eventually, if you develop feelings for a guy, you want to pursue the physical part of the relationship. So, if you are dating a guy for a few months and he has expressed no interest or indications of wanting to have sex with you, do you begin to wonder if he is hetero, or a shy virgin, or maybe he really isn't THAT into you, or. . . anyway, is it a negative thing at a certain point?
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Yes, that would be atypical in my experience so I'd wonder what was up. Also, sex is a huge part of why I even bother dating... So 6-8 weeks seems like plenty of time to me unless I know there's some reason he wants to wait.1