So recently I lost around 15 kgs which makes me now fit in a size S or 36. And I recently also I get a lot more attention from guys and I really dislike it because before I did not get it and I feel like guys only like my body now.
So I don't want to get fat again to see which guys still like me, but maybe someone has some ideas about how to see if a guy is genuine? I dont want to be in a relationship in which I always fear to get slightly larger as something that would end my relationship.
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Most of the initial attention (all of us) get is largely looks based. But if the guy continues to get to know you, helps you feel comfortable, treats you like a real human (not a princess or a sex goddess as well as like dirt) - you've got a keeper.1