When me and my boyfriend first started dating, we had sex all the time. All of a sudden after like 2 months of being together he was just not attracted to me anymore. I'm not a tiny girl but I've lost a lot of weight (before I met him and during our relationship). He told me that he's used to being with more fit girls and that he's trying to get used to my body. It just doesn't make sense to me because it had never mattered before. He is a body builder in progress and his testosterone levels have been fluctuating (if you know what I mean). I feel like it has a lot to do with that. It still just really sucks feeling unwanted or like I'm not good enough. He did tell me that he is attracted to me (that's not sexual) and that I'm a very beautiful girl and that I have a heart of gold and that's what he'll fall in love with because that it what matters. But talk about lowered self esteem. Should I just wait this out? It was literally a change overnight.
Most Helpful Guy
So move on.0
Most Helpful Girl
What an idiot.
"He told me that he's used to being with more fit girls and that he's trying to get used to my body."
That's clearly a lie since he had no problem with having sex with you for the first 2 months. Like he should be "used to it" by now and if anything, these issues of his should have been there from the get go, rather than randomly developed after 2 months.
I don't think you should wait it out. You deserve to be with someone who isn't turbulent like this and won't change his mind about you every other month. I think you should break up.0