Would you date a 40 to late 50 year old man/woman?

In another life or right now, would you date someone way older? Why or why not


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  • What a fascinating conundrum you present. In this modern era as many sexual boundaries and judgmental criteria are being stripped back. So I more and more people finding the age gap less of an issue for a relationship. I've found more and more young women interested in in more mature men.

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Most Helpful Girl

  • I would date under 50.

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What Guys Said 20

  • When I was in my twenties, I did. But I woiuld now, too, but she would still be younger than me. So a couple of women on here would probably label me a pedo.

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  • No, it's way too old for me.

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  • Maybe. When I was 25, I went out with someone 38. It was awesome. Totally would do it again if I wasn't married. It wasn't meant for us because at the time I wanted kids, now, I am not so sure.

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  • Depends... can she keep up? Giggity.

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  • bleh.

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  • You never really know. If she's filthy rich then totally. I would just not work any more.

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  • i know you would.

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  • Yeah i wouldn't mind

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  • I mean sure, if she was hot and had a great personality!!

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  • Sure. They don't play games.

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  • I love older women

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  • I am 40 so I am thinking you are asking other 20ish year olds. I just wanted to say last year when I was 39 I dated a 21 year old. I also dated a 23/24/27/34 over the past 3 years. It is super common.

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  • no I'll pass. too much for me

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  • i sure would if the person is nice and they can handle everything then i say yes totally

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  • Yeah if she's a milf

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  • My girlfriend turns 40 tomorrow.

    She was married since she was 20 up until 3 months ago. Has 3 kids 2, 7 and 10.

    Been dating her since her for 18 months now.

    She has her strong points, generally comes with no drama other than from her ex-husband who recently reappeared after 24 months.

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  • Daddy issues.

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  • sure why not

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  • Late 40s maybe but probably not.
    Late 50s no.

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  • That's even to old for me to date, lol

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What Girls Said 21

  • wow, no way. double my age doesn't sit well with me.

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  • No because I'm just 20 and I don't wanna be with someone who could be my parent but ask me again when I'm 35.

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  • Yep, the oldest I have dated was a 51 year old guy, (26 year age gap) and I've dated plenty of guys in their 40s. I used to like dating much older men, I still find them attractive.

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  • Unless I was also 40 or in my late 50's I wouldn't date a man so much older than me.
    We would have lots of problems due to the age difference. We would have nothing in common.
    Plus, I wouldn't be able to deal with people's comments.

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  • If he's rich then yes.

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  • absolutely not.. thats too old for me. we wouldn't even have anything in common. 10 years is my cut off.

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  • At this age? No chance in hell, I don't see people who could easily be my father romantically. I'll leave those men for my mother.

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  • Nope, because I would feel uncomfortable

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  • I would not. Tried it once for like 2 weeks and it was terrible.

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  • Nahh

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  • Nooooo, definitely not.

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  • Nope. I would probably just hook up and then leave.

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  • Not a chance

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  • I would. I currently have my eye on a guy in his late 50s.

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  • Very unlikely.

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  • Yes age ain't nothing but a number i know some 50 year old men with more stamina than a twenty-something year old, people are as young as they feel and if he is energetic and healthy and i am attracted to him, why not.

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  • I have and am with an older guy now. I have been with him for years. I dated guys in my age range before and it sucked. Too many mind games, disrespect, immaturity, stupidity... Never again.

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  • God no. That's like my parents age. Ick

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  • Only if I'm within 0-8 years or so in age from them.

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  • No, not until I'm around that age myself.

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    • But hopefully by then I'll have been married for 20+ years so...

  • im 22 and i like older... but thats way too old for me lol

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