I want to know do men between the ages 0f 20-45 years have an issue dating a married women? If so what is your issue? Women date married men all the time. I am wondering why don't men like married women? These are a few reasons that stood out in my mind. Afraid of the husband, think a woman is being disrespectful to herself and her lover, if she is cheating on her husband/what will she do to me, or personal insecurities? Tell me which one it is or give me a genuine answer.
What level of respect/feeling will you have for her?
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"Men date women all the time" as you say, but frequency does not mean this taboo is changed in any way. Frequency does not mean this activity is legitimised even though it is the stuff of films and soap operas. An extra person person in a relationship threatens the bond, it threatens any children that may have been born to that relationship, it threatens the way both the adulterer and the person responsible for the adultery will be treated by their own families and friends for the rest of their lives. Even if the marriage is an open one there are still dangers to those involved and to many around them.
All this is written from a moral high ground and of course takes no account of what the heart wants and strives for. To answer your question I would have to look at the risk to the married woman and what she had and wanted for her future and the risk to me and to my status in the eyes of those I care about. You do not say whether you are talking about dating as a result of being in love or dating for the frisson or 'a bit of fun' on the side. Yes, I have plenty of issues ... the main one being that if the woman in question has not got the guts to tell her married partner that he has not got enough of what she needs then she has not got what it takes for me to be interested in her!
You asked for a genuine and frank answer and that is what I feel bound to give. The sad fact is that the moral breakdown of society in many countries in the world is fueled by either people not wanting to commit to marriage and having children out of wedlock and also marriages breaking down because many people take most of their vows with a pinch of salt. Very sad that many of us cannot see anything but selfish gratification. I have seen so many people whose lives have burst apart because of a 'date' and its consequences.0