He was watching a movie and when I messaged him we started to chat. He was in the middle of the film and he said "I am gonna continue my movie." Then he left. Here is my question. If he comes while I am busy, I leave whatever I am doing and focus on him. Do you think I am just too obsessive or am I right? Please help, thanks. :)
I used to be the same as you with my ex, whenever I was busy I would stop whatever I'm doing just to reply and talk to him because I was really into him. He didn't really do the same and would even not talk for days at the end because he said he was busy. If it happened only once, I wouldn't think too much into it, but if he did it a lot then I would start questioning how much of a priority I am to him, and If I don't put more efforts than he does.
I can understand what you're feeling but he's not wrong.. you should've stopped chatting yourself and should have told him to enjoy the movie and that you can talk later.. relationships get suffocating so fast with this kind of attitude
you are being to obsessive. It isn't his problem that you drop everything when he just wants little chit chat. Sure if you had an emergency or something than he might be in the wrong but currently he isn't
He probably just wanted to finish his movie. My boyfriend does that for his anime and I do the same thing too sometimes. So long as it's not every single time I want to talk to him, I don't see why there would be a problem. I suggest finding something to do while he's into his movie. That way you're not feeling bad and you're occupied.
You're overthinking, sweetie. I can understand you, but it's just a movie. People's going to be busy every now and then. There's probably going to be times that you're busy and you don't want to answer too, I'm sure
too obsessive, cmon guys have their own time too, maybe he reli wanted to watch the movie. if ur reli busy on important, focus on that first
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