there's this boy I met off of Facebook. He so my type and I like him we end up talking for 2 days and on the third day he came over we was talking for the whole day then we had sex. Now he acting weird 😭😭😭😭 but he needed a ride to go to an interview I gave it to him and a ride home. After I did all that for him he said he would come over but he never did typical. So I woke up the next morning I see he change his whole name on Facebook and that I'm block. But why would he block me if I've been so nice to him, willing to want to be there for him off the 3rd day. I think I want love so bad I settle for any guy... Do you think he feel like I intimidate him? Or Is it off the fact I already gave him the cookie jar?
If the man wanted one thing... and you gave him that one thing without making him actually pursue you as a whole... why would he continue to pursue you at all after he's gotten what he came for? He was acting weird because he only wanted sex and he already got it and you continued to talk when he did not what to. He asked for a ride because he wanted a ride and nothing more. He blocked you because he's done talking to you or having anything to do with you because he already got what he came for. It's hard to swallow, but that's just how men work sometimes. (women too)
Yup, you gave it up way too soon. Don't get into that habit girl! I spent a good half of my 20's dating guys and sleeping with them far too soon only to end up being ghosted on. Fast forward to my current boyfriend, I didn't sleep with him for nearly a month and low and behold we've been together for almost a year now. He told me in the beginning that one of the reasons he likes me so much is that I didn't give it up too early.
I'm He's an asshole that wanted sex, got sex and moved on. Don't be hard on yourself, just chalk it up as a crappy experience to learn from, and don't have sex with someone that soon next time. A decent guy will be fine with sticking around without the sex if he's in it for the right reasons. He will want to get to know you and he will put in the effort to do so. That's how we weed out the bad ones.
Act like you don't care, and don't speak to him anymore.
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