Just a quick one, I've been casually dating a girl recently and its going well when we are together, however when were apart I always seem to be the one who texts. She always replies and usually fairly quickly, I've decided its time to pull back a bit and see if she makes the effort , after all if she can't be bothered to text then she's not all that much into me right?
What do you guys think? any experience of this cos the wait is killing me
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If you really like her and you stop texting her to see if she'll text you then it might not be a good thing because she may wonder why you haven't texted her and not text you because you haven't texted her. Sometimes people get too comfortable meaning that she's prob. use to you initiating the texts so she expects you to text her. From experience, I was talking to this guy and would texted for 1 wk straight meaning that he would text me first every day. Then he stop and we didn't talk for 1 wk and a day exactly. Then he texts me and I found out that he thought that he was texting me too much and said that I should have texted him. But I didn't text him because he didn't text me and I thought that he didn't like me anymore. I say that you should text her whenever you feel like it and when the convo is over tell her to text you tmrw that way she'll be the one initiating the text. Just because she doesn't text you first doesn't mean that she's not feeling u.1