It's impossible these days since every girl has got so many guys after her. Online dating is pretty much useless since any girl I'm interested in has gotten messages from so many other guys. As an experiment, I told a girl I know to get a Tinder and just selectively swipe guys she found hot. She is truly average in looks. After two days, she has exactly 67 matches, all who are very good looking guys. On Tinder, I get a good number of matches but girls have so many options that they usually don't choose me. The other day actually I was at a club and I was talking to this girl, when another guy came up who was just simply taller and more attractive than me. The girl's attention goes away from me to him. I get upset and at this point my chances are shot, so I ask, "am I not good enough for you?" She says, "you're cute, but he's cuter" and then goes away. I'm becoming a doctor so at least I'll have status too, but like this is ridiculous. Getting a girl is like playing the lottery.
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Try to sit down and talk with people than trying the "meat market" approach. Get involved in some activities, go to small gatherings, hit up friendly puns instead of clubs. Do a co-Ed sport or something - tons of charity 5Ks right now, for instance.1