I’m sure it has to do with all of the negative stereotypes attached to black women but it also may be where you live. Four out of seven of my very best friends are black; 2 African American, 1 African, and 1 Jamaican. They never have any problems getting a man. One of them is too busy being a boss and running her own business to entertain suitors but I swear whenever we go out, guys can’t keep their eyes off of her. One of them has dated one of my cousins and one of my brothers friends because the guys are always asking about her when I bring her to family BBQ’s. People who believe that all black women (or even most) have some measure of the ratchet, mean stereotype are idiots. I’m a well-traveled woman and I’ve seen so many different races of females act out that stereotype. In fact, some of the most ratchet women come from Brazil. Here in America, “ghetto” black girls will throw fists, where my family is from “ghetto” girls will have her friend hold you down while she chops off your hair with a kitchen knife.
Hold your head high and believe in yourself. There are men out there who adore black women and there are a lot of beautiful black women that no non-ignorant, intelligent man would deny.
- All women of all ethnicities are lighter skinned than their male counter-parts on average. This is generally seen as an attraction factor of men - aka men biologically find lighter skin attractive. So when you live in a country thats mainly white you can 1+1 yourself. - Black women seem to be too much making them sometimes seem disproportional. While most men really dig hourglasses, there definitely is a too much. Like too big a butt, etc. - Black women look too masculine. Femininity is attractive to most men, black women are the least feminine looking by nature (having a butt and boobs isn't all there is to femininity).
- Black women suffer from certain toxic elements among the black communities that creates a negative stereotype about them - There are several of obnoxious black women giving the decent ones a bad reputation. - Anything relating to ghetto is a turn-off.
Now what you make out of that is up to you. It is just me explaining why that is without any personal judgement.
Since you are young though I am only explaining you why black girls are generally seen as the least attractive. That does not mean you are unattractive or will end up solo or anything. I just want to explain you where it comes from so you can understand why. That shouldn't crush your self-esteem nor should it tell you that you will be forever alone. It's just a bit more of an uphill battle for you than it might be for others.
But think about it this way: While dating around might be easier for other ethnicities - finding the right life-long partner is equally difficult for everyone, because being such a good match in personality is difficult to find and completely indepentent of your skin-colour.
I would date a black girl. I choose who I date based on important things such as how knowledgeable she is about real topics, how well she can communicate, if she's ambitious, doesn't do drugs, isn't a drunk. I don't judge people on color, or size of her tits or anything superficial like that.
Out of the black race, the Women are the ones who are attractive. Just like with Hispanics. But all the endless anti-white propaganda and social engineering go against white men, So nonwhite males get the benefit from it. Don't pay much attention to the negativity on the internet, It's some very hateful people going to the extreme. There is no limit to how low they might sink :/
I don't know if that's even true, but please, stop with this. I'm constantly seeing posts of black girls whining. If you're hot, you'll get guys, it works like that with every race, and with every gender.
Well, i can only speak for myself. For me, if they wear weaves/fake hair, im immediately not interested. If I get a wiff of even the slightest bit of an aggressive attitude, im not interested. The attitude thing is something i look out for with every woman, but for me i have special senses when it comes to black women, because of some experiences i've had. Partly thanks to that experience, i'm fully aware of the code meaning behind the words "I'm a strong black woman". Life is too short. Just saw that some popular singer died recently (christina?) and she was only 22. I don't want to spend ANY of this short time with a girl who wants to be a constant thorn in my side in order to prove how unshakable she is.. As long as you avoid playing into this stereotype that black women have, you shouldn't have an issue
most guys just happen to like fair features and black girls are... well black, its not something to be upset about its how you wereborn but almost all guys i know like girls with light features and to them skin color can't be darker than a certain tone, also facial structure differs , in short caucasian girls who have light features are more attractive, as i said iam here to provide an answer.
well as a scottish person there is no real stigma about dating other cultures and racial groups but that being said as a third party person from what i have seen based in the mdiea kinda portay a lot of black women as either ghetto or thugish in most cases which kinda portrays them in the media
in some other media they can be portraid as
really loud in your face super opionated very materialistic ( gold diggers and such )
as for physical its more of a personal prefrence men
as a side note i dont think a lot of them personaly come across as this but simply how the media portays them genreally
Non-caucasian beauty ideals are only starting to change. On top of that, the stereotypes against black women suck. It's not fair but at least there are so many people in this world that it won't matter.
- some guys are afraid of their family and friends reaction. They are afraid of being judged. Or maybe they wouldn't know how to deal with their comments. - some believe in the stereotypes about black girls - others are not attracted to dark skinned girls.
False stereotypes, racist, everyone is entitled to their preference the most important thing is that you love yourself and know where you come from and who you are, be black and proud and no amount of racial hate, put downs or anything can phase you, destroy or give you self hate, when you reach that point of self love, whether people want to date you or not, it's you who will be confident in yourself enough to and pick and choose who is good enough for you or not.
What I have heard men say... their attitudes, weave, kids by different men. I think there are some black women like this. But... I also know a lot of lovely black women.
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