If you're not a lesbian and know you aren't then going date girls won't solve your problem. You should just be patient and don't go off people who say they're great in bed etc. Just go off how you feel and the connection
I think I've known one or two girls that have done that. I didn't ask them but they have "husbands" that look like girls with guys clothes. They may be transgender but I didn't ask. Maybe those girls got some masculinity but from a woman genetically.
You could try dating guys that would treat you nice. They exist. Maybe you're picking guys with bad attitudes. I was at the gym the other day and heard a young couple interact. I'll just say there's a lot of mentally immature guys lol.
Well the common denominator is YOU in all these relationships. Perhaps you need to look within yourself before putting blame on the guys. They may or may not actually be assholes, but regardless you're the one attracted to them in the first place to the point where you'd get into bed with them.