So annoying, literally I pick guys who are assholes, taken or natural flirts who flirt with anything that walks. there's a a guy who works at a bowling alley and I have a crush on him (me and my friend go every Friday) well he and I have stuff in common but he sends weird mix signals. Like he'll be joking around playful teasing one time. Or next moment like yesterday he flirted with some slutty skinny blonde girl who was training to work there. Now now if it was me trying for his attention he would ignore it.
The fact that she was tall, slutty and skinny she automatically gets his attention? Like what the fuck how is that fair? Why does it work like that?
i hate when people say oh she tall and blonde and skinny she gonna get his attention he's gonna like her!!! Like hello I'm like his perfect girl yet I get overlooked cause I'm 5'0 and have curves? I have a tendency to pick wrong guys but it's annoying that because I'm curvy 5'0 that I'm thought of us ugly or not attractive
and it's not like this guy has a six pack gym rat. He chubby , tall with a beard. In fact both men I liked were like that. I don't like six pack gym rat men I'm into husky, chunky, plus size what ever you want to call it.
the guy who was taken my defense he didn't tell me he's was taken until after a long while of talking but he will joke and flirt with each other
I think it is a culture thing, depending on where you live, men go for a certain type of woman, they did a study and found that men are trained to go for the norm and anything else is seen as a "downgrade". I read somewhere also biology, geographic region and economic status play into it. Men from poorer families tend to date heavier girls averaging at DD bra size and men who come from middle and upper class families tend to want women who are thinner averaging at a B cup size. Also geographic region. But universally all men tend to like the hourglass figure.
... are you saying that, if your were in a situation where you were talking to or familiar with two guys, one of whom was pretty fit and you got along with better, while the other one was quite overweight and you guys didn't mesh all that well, you'd choose the heavier one out of pity?
Not if we get along good, you have a pretty face and that most women have a nice smile and pretty eyes, if your attitude is right then it should be no problem with me or anyone not behind a computer screen.
I think the problem is that the guys you're interested in just see you as another face. The guys you mentioned aren't taken by you, so they just flirt with anyone. Tall, short, fat, skinny, etc. It won't matter. Also, there is nothing wrong with wearing leggings as pants. That's the primary purpose of most leggings these days lol