I was scared about jumping into another relationship, even though my others were after maybe two weeks and I've been talking to and dating this guy for over a month.
I told him I wanted to build a good foundation and to be sure that a relationship was really what I wanted. After our 9th date yesterday, when we were kissing and cuddling on the couch, I just decided that I didn't want to wait any longer. He makes me feel safe. I feel like I can trust him. It just feels right. The more time I've spent with him, the less scared I've gotten.
I think I realized that I was thinking too much and not focusing on what I felt. Plus, we spend 4/7 days together... it would kind of be like denying reality to not be in a relationship.
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