So I was talking to this guy for about 8 months he told he didn't want a relationship and said I would push the issue I even met his family and friend and hung out with them all the time I'm really close with his mom I just don't understand for 8 months he told me he didn't want a realtionship and then he started talking to others girls I'm pretty sure she didn't know about me and we stopped talking and he starts dating her right after and they have been together for a year now I just don't get it.
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Sometimes (or even often) when people say they don't want a relationship, it's not that they can't commit, they just have to find the right person for them to do that with. It sounds like he just met someone he felt ready to commit to.
Sorry it happened that way, it sucks. Advice for next time though - if you want a relationship, don't continue dating a guy for months and months if he says he doesn't want one. It doesn't matter what the reason is, it's just not worth it. You're better off finding someone else who's really into you and ready for a relationship.0