I was dating a man I loved for two years. He just was lazy and would cheat and wouldn't make a change. Each time I ended things he would come crying back saying he never physically cheated it was just online flirting. Not long after I ended things with him, he knocked up a girl 10 years younger and whom he doesn't love. She hasn't given birth yet but now he decides to mature and make a commitment to her and cut off the women he was trying to cheat on me with. I gave him my all. I know it's a good thing he is taking this child seriously but it could've been us. It takes a little girl who works at a fast food restaurant to get pregnant for him to change? This really hurts. I thought him and I had something special. Is having a family more important than love to some men?
Most Helpful Guy
Children can change people and your prospective of life. Your not all about yourself anymore and you want to be a positive influence on your kid. Its a life changing experience. I think I'm a different person because of my children (I'm still a jerk for the most part though) but fatherhood is a things that makes you look in a mirror and see who you are.0
Most Helpful Girl
How are you so certain he is going to change anyway?1