I'm wondering if you would want to date or see a guy who is 28 and:
doesn't own a car or license since he moved here from another country 2 years ago doesn't know the language super well (tenses off or Certain words but can speak fluently) lives in the basement of a family is in a band bartends has a bad receding hairline (balding) has a lot of tattoos
I'm 22.. I met this guy with all those things and he is treating me like absolute poo... I was SO down for him and wanted to really help him and be on this journey with him... And instead he lied to me, used me, and is talking to other women like he is some Casanova. He hurt me so bad and my friend was like there's no way he can do better than you, look at him.. I don't know I've always put him on a pedestal.. Bc I thought who he was inside was what mattered. Maybe he didn't deserve it.
He's not a nice person... Why does the rest even matter?
Hate to break it to you but people in the 20's moving out is becoming more and more rare. A lot of people just can't afford it or go back after university. I'm sure I'll have to. I wouldn't judge a guy for living with his family.
The rest, like I said, makes him sound like someone I would avoid dating regardless.