My boyfriend that I am dating of almost 2yrs got mad at me for posting a pic on Instagram with a guy, it was just a sweet little innocent pic, he was also gay and my boyfriend got bothered so I took it down, yet I see on his snapchat always taking pics with other girls.. That he told me liked him. So it doesn't make much sense
Ohhhh boy. You messed up BAD. If you're in a relationship, never EVER EVER post a selfie with another guy. Don't even take one. For guys, it resembles that you were going out with that guy, which, of course, your boyfriend would be furious with.
If my girlfriend did the same, I would just ignore her for a long time because I would be so pissed off. I justify his actions.
Just pls, for the sake of sanity and your relationship, apologize saying you didn't know how guys take it, and don't do it again.
PS: when you say the guy is gay, it sounds like total BS and your boyfriend isn't gonna believe it
He is obviously not fear to you, If you tell him he is gay and its a friend of yours and your boyfriend hangs out with girls THAT like him I would say goodbye to him a long time ago. The first, girl never tell him I love you when he does worse, the second he does not respect you enough to man up and respect that.
BWT You are Gorges and Beautiful you can do better plenty of fish in the ocean and I am not telling you to say goodbye to him but I only want to tell you my opinion because they are many fuckboys out there be careful
If this bothers him he is seriously insecure about himself. He should trust you, relationships builds on mutual trust. You did nothing wrong. There's not much you can do. You can't stop hanging out with people you like and care about, men or not, because you are walking on egg-shells not to fire up your boyfriend. This is HIS problem, his to solve, in himself. You might help him by showing him his own value, making him more secure, but you can't change him. Good luck to you both.
As some one who is very open and hangs with people who are both straight and gays. Your boy friend just needs to catch up with the times that having gay or lesbian friends doesn't mean automatically that its romantic. Its just that they happen to like the same sex.
My opinion is that he's just missing out a huge chunk of his own community and being kinda dismissive. Also he sounds kinda "needy."
The picture has absolutely nothing inappropriate going on, you're just smiling for a picture with your friend? Like, if he was groping your tits, I'd understand where your boyfriend was coming from but it's a 100% innocent picture and he's reacting like a child. He should get over himself, you didn't do anything wrong.
I'd be mad, too. What are you doing out with other guys and he doesn't know about it? You seem a bit disrespectful to me. The fact he didn't know you were around other guys probably sounds suspicious to him, too. You and I both know that if he took a pic with a girl and then told you later she was a lesbian, you still would be uncomfortable. Pretty rude if you ask me.
If he's jealous over a boy that's gay... He probably needs to re-evaluate himself. Maybe he's insecure. Pump him up a little bit. Tell him how great he is. And if that doesn't work then 👋👋👋 bye... I wouldn't be able to stay with someone who gets jealous over a gay guy but posts pictures with girls who he KNOWS likes him. This isn't stuff that should be happening 2 years into a relationship. There should be trust by now 🙄🙄🙄.