Ok I think I've told you guys about this guy but here it goes. Lovers since November, really care for each other and love /like each other a lot. But! won't really date me! Now i can kind of get an idea for the reason why, but i keep thinking that its about me alone. Id like to hear your opinion :)(no mean comments, ok well at least sugar coat them)
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Some guys simply have commitment issues. A big age gap doesn't mean that those issues go away. For people able to deal with a large age gap, the gap itself doesn't make one more or less likely to actually 'date' the person. I have had partners with a big age gap that I have been happy to date, and I have had partners with a big age gap that I would sleep with, and enjoyed spending time with, but wouldn't actually date.
So it could be that he is really happy being your lover, but flat out isn't interested in actually dating. That would be the most simple, straight-forward answer, and also the most likely. A guy that is enjoying what he is getting but not interested in more can get very creative in what kinds of excuses he comes up with that will keep things exactly the way the are.2
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