So I am a bit of a late bloomer you could say. I haven't really done much sexually and it has been a reoccurring issue in terms of my love life. My last relationship lacked the sexual size of things. I'm not waiting until marriage - I've just never really been comfortable enough to go all the way with a guy. Anyway I have just turned 27, this guy is clearly very experienced and I can tell from the lyrics in the songs he writes.
I feel like he might see this as a bad thing and drop me like others have in the past. I wish I was more experienced but I can't turn back the hands of time...
Most Helpful Guy
I'm going to let you in on a little secret: men prefer virgins. Not only because you know she's clean (as long as she's not 'technically' a virgin, i. e., has done anal, oral, everything BUT vaginal sex), but it says that she thinks pretty highly of you if she's letting you take her V-Card.
And most don't realize this, but you will NEVER bond with any man the way you bond with your first partner. It has to do with brain chemicals. Every partner after the first decreases your ability to bond by around 50%. So after 4, you're basically unable to pair-bond.
Now, knowing all that, I'd encourage you to think very long and hard about whether this is the guy you want to go there with. You mentioned lyrics in the songs he's writes... I'm guessing he's some kind of two-bit musician. Might want to do a bit of research and see how that tends to work out for girls...0
Most Helpful Girl
I was in your position not too long ago. I'm with a guy now, he didn't mind it. He was quite experienced too, but it was nothing to him. Really, you don't have to tell him if you don't wanna anyway.0