I'm a girl who works and is focused on my studies I am extremely focused and I have a lot of motivation to be where I want to be. I don't go out too much I keep myself to myself. Im with a boy who I'm very loyal too but why does he take me for advantage he does like me but he'll still be interested in other girls. Am i too boring?
Most Helpful Guy
You kind of sound like this girl I'm seeing at the moment to be honest, she's very hard working and smart. I'll be honest I have taken her for granted and done the same things, but I'd rather stay with her than run off with abother girl. The lack in my relationship was that there wasn't much intimacy going on between her and I. Although I really did care about her the connection and intimacy between us both just wasn't there. I suggest just speaking to him and letting him know how you feel right now. I felt as if I was only being given a sample of her love. Like I was only being given a little taste of her.
Maybe you should try and be intimate with him. It doesn't always have to be about having sex, maybe visit him whenever you get the chance. Spend time with him and do what feels right. It all just has to do with spending tkme. I feel like that's what is absent within yoh guys, just simply bonding time.
I only gave my perspective from my experience which seems very and strangely equivalent to your situation haha.0
Most Helpful Girl
I've never met a guy that's in a relationship and doesn't just have eyes for his girlfriend. Ever heard that song by Stereophonics, I'm just looking. I'm not buying. Are you not guilty of eyeing up other attractive men? If this is what you mean by his interest in other women. Its really nothing to worry about if he's not acting on his impulses. If he found you that boring I don't think he would be with you. But then again if your in any doubt about trusting him, then maybe he's not the one for you.