I was head over heels for my boyfriend in the beginning but now i don't feel that spark anymore. We've been together for 7 months but i just don't feel it anymore. I don't want to blame it on him but I don't know. I feel like all the times i wanted to hang out with him he didn't want to because he wanted to hang out with his friends, when i wanted sex he didn't want to or just did it half-assed. When i tell him how happy I am with him he says "You're sweet." He says he is attracted to me and is happy were together but he doesn't show it. When i ask him does he still want me, he just says "I'm still here right?" I want him to show it, i told him that. He says he does by being with me. I'm not asking him to shower me with gifts and sex, just something to even as a nickname. I call him "baby, babe, sexy ass and sugar baby." I don't know. I just don't feel the same way i did when i first met him.
Is that normal?
Most Helpful Guy
It's normal enough. Find the spark again.0
Most Helpful Girl
I'm having the same problem, except my boyfriend showers me with love and affection constantly, always wants sex. And yet I don't feel that spark anymore. It's been 3 years, but I love him to death and I'm not dumping him anytime soon. I would say ask him to show you more affection and say it's really important to you and it'd make you daily and stuff, and if you don't see any change or effort on his part, break up with him cause he doesn't seem to care how you feel. After you've been with someone so long, it changes. It's not As exciting and you don't get butterflies when they talk to you. This is normal, you can't be in that honeymoon phase forever. However, if he changes his ways and you still aren't happy or content, I'd end things. Good luck!0