A black guy asked me out on a date, but I don't date black guys. Of course I was respectful about it and said that I'm currently too busy for a date, but then he started to threaten me by saying that he'd tell everyone I'm a racist and all that! :'( I don't know what to do. I'm white.
Most Helpful Guy
So you didn't even mention race to him and he pulls the race card because he got rejected? LOL... What a moron. Everyone will have some form of racial preference, I know I do, and there's nothing racist about that at all.
Unfortunately there's not much you can do if he's going to go around talking crap, those that know you well should ignore it and those that don't know you, don't matter.. If they want to believe whatever someone tells them that's their problem. A guy once got rejected by my girlfriend and he went around calling her a slut, it was pretty funny if I'm honest.
Most Helpful Girl
I am not saying this particular guy - cause he doesn't sound attractive.
But how can you say 'I don't date black guys' as if they are all the same?
I bet 100% if you got to know a good man of any race, you'd see the beauty in them. At the moment you are racist, although this guy had no legitimate reason to believe this unless he is psychic lol, because you are looking at whole group of people superficially.
I am not saying you are not allowed to have a preference, but I doubt you have ever really gotten to know and love people outside your race.
I used to think like you, but ever since I traveled and got to know various cultures - I see handsome men all over the world.0