Started talk to a guy online for over a month. We talked evey day all the time via online, texts, and a couple phone chats. We talked about a future together and things we wanted in life and how much on the same page we were. He would use pet names for me and say how much he liked me. He lives 6 hrs drive away. One day he drove all the way here to meet me for only a short while and then drove home the same day. ( lots of kissing happened pretty much the whole time) A few days later it was his bday and he wanted to spend it with me. So i went to visit him for a long weekend. ( stayed at his place didn't go anywhere and had crazy sex the whole time) We spoke that night via text when I got back and agreed we wanted to see where it would go as we both couldn't get enough of one another. However ever since then... He's only talked sexual and not so much lovey dove anymore... I'm wondering how do I make him open his heart to me rather then be so sexual? I d see a future wih him and I'm starting to like him a lot. Iv never had anyone that I had so much in common with. Also he's 6 years older then me. I'm unsure if since we have talked about it before he doesn't talk about it anymore... or if he's just not into me as romantically anymore?
I have no idea how to get anyone to fall in love with anyone, but there are some things to avoid if you want to improve your odds of sustaining a relationship:
1) Getting too needy. 2) Not giving enough space when the other person needs a break from you. 3) Showering the other with love and attention too much to the point where they take you for granted, at which point people who don't can start to become more interesting. 4) Getting serious all the time and no longer having fun together. 5) Not being able to communicate your intimate thoughts properly, wanting to back out of situations or get into arguments.
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If people could get others to fall in love with them then no one would be single
It's not something that you have any real control over. He either feels attracted to you or he does not feel attracted to you. He may only see you as a friend or a sister and they called that being friend-zoned. That kind of becoming friend-zoned situation happens frequently to guys nowadays. In your case, you guys may just end up as friend with benefits if he see you that way. From the looks of it, it may be afraid to actually seriously commit to you. Besides "why pay for the cow when the milk is free"?
He's either in love with you anyway so asking is enough or... he isn't. At this point you can't force love. It would be like trying to get out of the friendzone. It's possible, but nobody could explain it.
Just be honest. Tell him you love the sex but want something more, and you're worried that he's only in it for the physical aspects. Do that and see what he says. You can't force someone to feel what you're feeling. Either they do or they don't.
Guy are attracted to girls that desire them, I obviously can't speak for all guys but even if there was a girl that I didn't even know existed, the moment she starts showing the signs that she has a crush on me, the more attracted to her I become.
Even though I can say that you can't actually make him fall in love with you. He's free to choose what he wants. Beyond that, though, people can't always control who they love. If it's simply not there on his end, resist the temptation to punish him for it.
Accept that if the relationship is meant to be, it will happen; if not, then you're meant for something better.
Avoid using the girlfriend term until he has said it first. If you say it too prematurely, he may run and never look back. Even more importantly, avoid all talk of marriage and babies, that will definitely scare him away.
There's no way to "make" someone fall for you. It either happens or doesn't. You wouldn't want someone falling for a fake you (which your motives would be found out eventually anyway). You want someone to appreciate the real you. If he doesn't, there's one out there that just WILL.
Can't make anyone do anything. Especially not fall in love.
i don't know about make a guy fall in love with you, but you can try... be funny smart show some interest in the things he likes tease him a little have sex and be willing to try new things sexual and nonsexual buy a few gifts here and there randomly take him on a date. or you can just be yourself and that should be enough.
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