@coolsky01 has stated that white women who have dated or have slept with a black man in their past are now considers damaged goods and that white men will no longer consider them to be "good women". I can't wrap my head around this nonsense. I've never even slept with or dated a black man (and not because I have anything against it, but because the opportunity has never presented itself) and I am completely repulsed by this comment he made.
I want to see what you other white men have to say about this?
Do SECURE men think less of white women who have slept with or dated black men?
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The part about sleeping with a black man doesn't apply to me, because I am a virgin, and I'm only willing to date a virgin. So in my case, I'd write a girl off for having slept with a guy - regardless of his race.
However, the part about dating a black man still rings true to some extent. I don't think I'd immediately write a girl off if she dated a black guy in the past, but I'd definitely be more hesitant to date her.
Girls who date "bad boys" or "thugs" usually have bad judgement. Also, their willingness to date them just because they are attractive, despite their obvious character flaws, indicates that she is shallow, and ultimately disloyal and untrustworthy. It just so happens that most black men (especially my age) fit the description above. Also, it seems to me that women who date black men usually tend to be more on the promiscuous side, as well as indulging in black culture activities (such as rap music, slutty clothing, and excessive bluntness) - all of which are extreme turn offs.1
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I’ve heard of some white guys feeling this way before. It sounds like some sort of pathetic, manipulative tactic to dissuade white girls from sleeping with black guys possibly because the rumor behind black men makes them feel self-conscious. Either that or they’re racist and foolish. Perhaps a combination of both. Lets just be real: there are probably a lot of white guys out there with small penises who already don’t feel confident and secure in their ability to please a woman sexually and the idea of a black man with a big penis who can pull moans and screams out of a woman that he’s never been able to makes their self-worth and self-esteem plummet. Especially if he’s been deluding himself about being superior to said hypothetical black man; being with hypothetical white girl means facing that he’s not superior when it comes to his d*ck game. Ouch. :/
The color penis you’ve had inside of you doesn’t disqualify you as a good woman who deserves to be loved and can bring a lot to the table in a man’s life. -_-
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