Hypothetically... let's use a situation between 2 people who truly like each other & like spending time together. Not a friends with benefits, a "best friend you suddenly fell for" or whatever other label is out there.
They want a commitment of some sort, you do not (for whatever reason). It comes make or break time and you decide to break. There is no animosity regarding the break.
Can you just "decide" you don't have feelings anymore or do you just bite the bullet because you know it can't work out and you suffer as well?
- Yes, easilyVote A
- Nope (but I wish I could)Vote B
- Sometimes-depends on how special that person was to meVote C
- poll resultsVote D
Most Helpful Guy
How great would that be?1
Most Helpful Girl
there are some people i had really strong feelings for, then something would happen and id see a side to them that id find SO unattractive, and my feelings would almost completely disappear. with others it was more eventual, after one thing and another and another piling up.
so yes I'm capable of turning 'off' my feelings, but it just happens, i dont make that decision.1