i understand being a single mom at my age, my options are limited, so i am gave this guy a 3rd date.
ea. date i found out a bit more...
1. 20s... lots of guys don't know what they want - fine
2. 30s... still a blur -- ooookkkkkkaaayyyy?
3. 40s.. 1st serious girlfriend. he moved for his job she didn't want to marry him or move with him.
now i met him 3rd time, he wants to see me more but i am not feeling it..
he found a way to not complete his GED but got into a communictiy college (2 years. college) way back then. somehow completed 4 years. his 30s was a blur...
now 49 said he would like to go back to school to work on his Graduate degree (masters degree)
i don't need a rocket scientist, but i sense more than lacking motivation/ambition
3rd date, he said he woke up at noon. met me around 7 after dinner, walked around. i got a book and was fascinated with the pictures sitting at park bench
around 10:30ish.. he said he was getting sleepy...
wore the same shirt as 2nd date, wore falling apart sneakers.
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He sounds like a mess.
Single moms don't have many options sure, especially at your age (as you acknowledge), but that doesn't mean you can't point out these red flags and start making demands.
Maybe this guy needs to be pushed. His life story is anyone else's tale of regret. A complete dud, or a sincere lack of attention to detail.
Start pulling mental levers to see if he responds in ways that signal a reasonable person underneath this facade. If not, then... Your call.1