What do people mean by "putting yourself out there"?

What do people mean by "putting yourself out there"? I am nearly 21 and never been asked out/had a bf/been kissed but people always say that I need to put myself out there in order to find a guy? What do people mean by that? Where should I possibly go that will 'put myself out there' and for me to finally get a date?


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Most Helpful Guy

  • Put self out there = meet more people, start conversations with random people, broaden your social circle, flirt, show interest, ask people out

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Most Helpful Girl

  • you could try local clubs, activities, events places where you will meet new people :)

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What Guys Said 2

  • I'm in the same situation, except I'm 24. My best friend suggested setting me up with one of his girlfriend's friends - like a blind date. I may take him up on that yet.

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  • How about you make the first move and ask a guy out

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