Just have a general curiousity. Most of the men in my family all settled in their early 30s.. and they had a lot of sex in their 20s. I feel like the dating game at my age is set up for women to have the advantage. I don't use that as an excuse by any means though.. just my observation. I work hard at university and I'm progressing in bodybuilding.. I put a lot of effort in my physique. I can get laid without any issues and have girls approaching me a lot.
My thoughts though.. Once I reach mid to late twenties.. I'll be more established.. will of graduated college and be working as an engineer. I'll have have my own place.. will much more money.. a nice car.. nicer clothes.. etc. Also.. the thing about bodybuilding is that you get more attractive as you age into these years because your physique develops and matures. My goal is 240 lbs relatively lean by my late twenties. I have strong ambitions to get known in fitness industry and I'm going to have my image professionally marketed through instagram and social media once I start competing. I did the instagram thing before but ended up pussying out when I actually acquired a following. I feel like I'll be much more attractive at that point in my life in every way. I'm not trying to subtlety brag... these are just my plans.
I feel like women start getting a bit more thirsty as they start approaching their 30s while men seem to be prime at that age assuming that he graduated college and took care of himself.
Has your dating life improved?
How has the dynamic changed?
Where do you meet single women after college?
If you're some weird socially awkward virgin at this age then I really don't want your opinion plaguing my perception lol. There seems to be an overabundance of those type people on here. I'll add a little poll on this question.
@consultantisback Figured I'd have to tag you bro ahaha. Waiting for your answer.
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I was going to answer but:
"If you're some weird socially awkward virgin at this age then I really don't want your opinion plaguing my perception lol. There seems to be an overabundance of those type people on here."
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Well, I'm married. You'd think that means you're sexually dead, or undesirable (or at least off limits) to other women. But, quite the opposite.
Note: I wouldn't disregard guys' opinions who are virgins, inexperienced, etc. Those guys are part of the marketplace, and it's important to be aware of what other alternatives/options women have, and where and why they get certain ideas about guys.
Anyway, when I was younger, my sex life was pretty much like what yours sounds like. Eventually, you get bored of sex. If anything, I felt like things were stacked in girls' favor when I was under 21. After college, "status" > "beauty." Beauty didn't pay the bills. Beauty didn't send kids to better schools. Beauty didn't give you a sense of security, especially as people get older. Money, on the other hand (and the value of your network), did.
In high school and college, guys are chasing validation. After college, girls are chasing status and security. It's not always financial, often times, it's just social. They want to be married, a mother, have a family, have a house, be on social media advertising to their friends how awesome their life and children are.
That comes at an age where they want sex like crazy, and guys' testosterone levels are ranking (as their stress levels are skyrocketing). So, the need/demand/desire guys have for girls goes down (around the same time that the need/demand/desire women have for men goes up).
It's like you're at a bar and Nature is yelling, "LAST CALL! Closing in a fews years!"
When single women see a ring on the finger, there's a split. Most single women don't go there. But, many of them do. They don't care. They think, "He'll prefer me to his wife." I don't get it, all I know is that it happens. They see the house, the car, the lifestyle, and think, "I want that." All of a sudden, "I want that" turns into "I want him." Makes no sense, but it happens.
The joke is, now that we're older and could care less about the pussy, how are all these single women going to get the kind of lifestyle they want? Again, not talking about money, just "social." Look at their options and alternatives (single guys 35-45). When I get more excited about Word 2016 than a girl in a mini skirt, there is just like no hope for girls lol. So, if you feel it's ever in favor of girls... itgetsbetter. org (but you could care less when it gets better lol)1
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