GUYS AND GIRLS: what do you look for in a partner? What would your "perfect" partner be like? Looks and personality wise?

just wondering. Mine would be:
5'11(or taller)
nice hair
lean (kind of on the skinnier side)
tan
athletic
nice smile
and anything else I'm attracted to (nothing in particular)
smart
and funny (I wouldn't be with a guy who doesn't have a sense of humor)
nice but not too nice


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Most Helpful Guy

  • I don't care about height.
    Hair would preferably be brunette.
    Don't really care about body weight so long as not fat. A little on the chubby side is fine and even good but lean is also good.
    I'm never tan myself so I want someone pale like me lol
    Nope, not athletic. Athletic women are fine but I find normal women to be more feminine.
    Smart and funny is fine so long as they can tolerate my stupid sense of humour ;D

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Most Helpful Girl

  • I'm 5'9, so I would prefer a guy to be around
    6' - 6'3.
    Brown hair
    blue, green, sometimes brown eyes
    olive skin, or fair, not pale

    A great sense of humor, can crack jokes but can also be serious
    Knows how to flirt, and makes me blush
    Loves music, (because I do)
    Intelligent, doesn't have to be a genius
    Loves animals
    loves sending me sexy vibes and knows how to turn me on with "eye-sex"

    (OF COURSE I WOULD GET ALL THIS IN A PERFECT WORLD, BUT I KNOW I'LL HAVE TO IMPROVISE AND THAT'S ALRIGHT.)

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    • I forgot:
      Witty, I love wit, I don't know why
      And sarcasm is kind of hot, nut not too sardonic, that's a little too mean

    • I agree with everything you said lmao sounds perfect😍

    • Awe, thx! If only I could find someone like that.

What Guys Said 16

  • I used to have a very precise set of qualities I was looking for in women. After dating a lot, I kept discovering I liked women that didn't meet some of those qualities, and the list got shorter and shorter.

    I think I got to here:

    1) nice-smelling twat
    2) trim figure
    3) passionate about something and practices/works every day to achieve it (doesn't have to be so intellectual -- it could be like dancing or creating art or music).

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    • That first one might be a little awkward to check out when meeting in public.

  • Petite, smart, happy, healthy and horny. She'd like sailing fishing, cooking as a team and slow snuggly morning sex.

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    • Added after further thought:
      She's got her own opinions and isn't afraid to challenge mine. (Likes a good debate).
      She's assertive enough to not take any guff from me without giving it back in equal measure.

      And she genuinely likes me.

      If she was a good shot too, that'd be just about perfect... oh and pink puffy nipples on perky boobs and loves receiving oral.

      If I ever find her I'm probably gonna find out she's already married, lol!

  • 5'8 ~130lbs
    Athletic build, proportional (not big or small) chest and backside
    Brunette or auburn haired
    Incredibly attractive face, caucasian features
    Bronze tanned

    Funny, witty
    Doesn't take herself seriously
    Be able to dish out her own verbal barrages
    Incredibly smart, that's in her field of work, in general and streetsmart
    Confident, riding the line between bitchy
    Being nice and having empathy in the right places, not a simpering wreck everytime a lion eats a buffalo
    Driven and she can NOT be a quitter, if there's one thing i hate...
    Loyal, she has to have my back and others close to her.

    Obviously this is perfection so i'm not going to find a girl like that. Everyone's got a perfect checklist, but It's about ticking as many boxes as possible imho.

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    • Outgoing too, can't be a shy wallflower

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    • @natralblack Assuming that comment is directed at @cosytoasty, right? (... how he wrote "straddling the line between confident and bitchy", or whatever, in his post)

  • Have to say I fit that description you described about 100% 😜

    For me, my perfect girl would have to be
    Around 5'4
    Beautiful eyes
    Have a perfect laugh
    Intelligent
    Knows how to brighten up any situation with humor
    Pretty lean as I am skinny myself
    Lightly tanned skinned
    Either Blonde or brunette would be amazing
    And
    Great smile

    That list would make the perfect girl 😊

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  • Smart, cute, laughs at my humor, high sex drive.

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  • a gourmet chef w/ an ass like no tomorrow.

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  • My perfect woman? I don't bother trying to imagine a perfect woman. There's no use; I'll just end up comparing every woman I'm interested in to this ideal standard. I will, however, tell you my basic standards:
    A pretty face
    A fit body
    Either a big butt or big breasts
    A kind heart
    Traditional (in her gender roles and thoughts)
    Devoutly Christian or Catholic

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  • I'll say not taller than me and I'm 5'9. That shouldn't be too hard to find, a woman below that height..
    I like her to be curvy preferably but I don't care too much about shapes.
    Someone I can work out with or at least have a good run
    Amazing eyes, you just have to have eyes! LOL
    Maturity.
    She's kind and Friendly.
    Preferably that She likes sports
    Likes my taste of music or close to it.
    Gorgeous face
    Hair preferably curly but she can have any kind of hair
    The rest it's all kind of womanly traits you can think of.

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  • Well if we're going to be shallow and only list things that we think are important to feed our own egos...

    First and foremost she has to be intelligent.

    Second, she has to be driven.

    Third, she has to be her own person with his own goals and dreams, her own life outside of the one she would share with me. Independent.

    Fourth, preferably closer to my height. Not kicking out tall girls, I love you, too, but closer to my height is just more convenient for making eye contact.

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  • 5'5 (or shorter)
    Long, straight, brown hair
    Thin waist and curvy
    Pale
    Don't care much about teeth
    Smart, but not too smart (can be boring)
    Funny ofc
    There is no such thing as "too nice"

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  • Light brown hair, light eyes, don't care about noon size and a butt that pops out. Around 5 foot 5. That's about it.

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  • We rarely ever marry people on our makeup list, just saying.

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    • I know, but the point of the question was your ideal girl/guy.

  • A healthy woman overall.

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  • Smart, adventurous and nature loving. Perfect

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  • What's your height?😞

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    • I'm 5'4 why?(:

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    • Hairless?

    • some hair is fine but I prefer less.

  • Tallish 5'6 to 5'9ish (I am 6'1)
    Fairly thin with long legs
    Good personality,
    Loyal,
    Good teeth
    Funny and can put up with my joking,
    down to earth,
    smells nice
    Everything else is pretty subjective, I suppose a nice round but not huge butt, and small to medium sized breasts. Hair length, hair and skin color etc don't really matter.

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What Girls Said 11

  • - good face (cute manly face with pretty eyes, good nose and great smile)
    - natural hair
    - taller than me by at least 3 inches (I'm 5ft6)
    - bigger than me (not skinny but not fat either) and a bit on the muscly side
    - likes to cook, eat, the outdoors, traveling, and is up for almost anything
    - smart, ambitious, funny
    - good relationship with family
    - a bit of a badass (example rides motorbikes, has tattoos, into extreme sports ect) but complete sweetheart

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    • What does a guy with unnatural hair look like? Are guys really wearing weave now.

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    • Well let's not tell guys how to look because God knows men aren't allowed to criticize women.

    • @cchris989 I agree! I like when guys leave their hair natural, it looks 3757474 times better than when they style it.

  • -Lean
    -Taller than 6ft
    - long hair (almost reaches to his butt)
    -black hair
    - blue eyes
    - sarcastic
    -cocky
    - sexy lips
    - vegan

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  • Dark hair- I'm usually attracted to guys with dark brown hair
    Lean
    Average height- Taller than me (5'6" - 5'10")
    Beautiful eyes
    Quiet/Shy
    Funny
    Great listener
    Mysterious
    Romantic

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    • Agreed with everything except the quiet/shy part! I like my guys loud and outgoing haha!

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    • Haha I see! I'm more on the shy side until you get to know me then I am crazy and will never shut up! I like more outgoing talkative guys because they always help me break out of my shell and just make me feel comfortable! If I was with a shy guy then we'd both be too introverted.

    • Ahaha, that's why they say, opposites attract. :)

  • 5'9 - 6'4
    Tan skin
    Manly face (chiseled jaw)
    Stubble
    Muscular
    Thick dark hair
    Sexy eyes
    Sexy smile
    Nice teeth
    Big hands
    Well dressed

    Confident
    Loyal
    Mature
    Doesn't give a fuck about what people think
    Ambitious
    Hardworking
    Chill
    Likes to go to the beach and work out
    Funny

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  • Funny
    Nice
    Curious (both in and out of bed)
    Good kisser
    Nice back
    Pretty eyes
    Accepting
    Taller than me (5"4' +)

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  • my perfect partner.. A man.. who's kind and hard-working, respectful, intellgent and doesn't drink coffee out of a straw --.-- LOL.

    Dream man!!1

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    • I've never seen *anyone* drink coffee with a straw, with the possible exception of iced coffee. Is that... a thing? A thing that people do?

      Or was that just something one of yr exes did?

      To be fair, that might make it easier to handle the coffee while it's still ridic hot...

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    • @redeyemindtricks lol no they're are men here.. That will have Hot coffee in hand and shove a straw in it and drink it like that. It's the craziest thing I've ever seen. 😂😂 makes me laugh so hard. But I guess it's to prevent yellow teeth.

      But it's hella funny!!! Seeing a grown ass man drink like that

    • Haha, whatever butters their bread. I don't get bothered by stuff like that. But, yeah, funny.

  • Tall
    Funny
    Fine asf

    bonus: rude to everyone else but has a soft spot for you

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    • I definitely agree!

    • Lol at the bonus.
      My man is like that and I bug him about it all the time.. you ladies actually prefer him to be rude to everyone but nice to you? Haha I always thought of the quote: "if he's nice to you but rude to the waiter, he's a douche" ? No? Lol

    • @soulfulone hahah well not too rude to anyone but just nicer to me than he is to anyone else.

  • Not much taller than me (I'm 5'5), long thick hair (brown, red, or black), solidly built, pale - medium skin tone, nice eyes (green, brown, or hazel).
    Intelligent, confident, generous, funny (and sarcastic), family oriented.

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  • just someone who I get along with really well and who I find physically attractive.

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  • Somali guy
    Tall
    Buff
    Hot
    In love with me
    Funny
    Lowkey sadistic/freaky
    Smells amazing
    Smart and interesting
    Dresses nicely

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  • My ideal partner...

    They are open minded
    they like to watch movies with me at night
    They respect my opinions
    They actually listen to my words and care about what I mean. I am a deep person and I'm very misunderstood I feel so lonely sometimes...
    They are willing to step out of their comfort zone and do something out of the ordinary and fun with me once in a while!
    They are very very very very trustworthy and I can trust them with my personal "secrets"
    They have the courage to do what they beleive in. But can also admit they are wrong and apologize when they feel.
    They have got to be a kind person. They really have got to have sympathy.
    Oh and they gotta be humorous. Laugh things off and not take everything too seriously. :)

    Physically
    (Very very very changeable.)
    I don't have a set ideal picture of a guy/girl. Im not one to turn down a guy/girl because of his physicalities.

    Ideal=5'3"-5'11"
    Considerable= 4'5"-7'0"
    I lowkey like deeper voices, not higher "cute" ones
    I love freckles or birthmarks or Beauty marks.
    When they have twists in their hair or just big curly hair.
    Nice teeth. White teeth are attractive
    When they smell good and don't overdose on the cologne/perfume
    I love soft skin.

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