I'm a single, 26 year old woman who will be turning 27 very soon. I've been told I'm a really nice person, easy going and great to be around. A lot of guys tell me that I am a great catch. But so far no one seems to be casting their net on me though :P
I love animals, cooking, spending time at home, as well as going on walks, enjoying the beach, and spending time with friends and family. I am not someone who requires a guy to have expensive stuff to hang around me. I work hard and have a career of my own. I'm just looking for companionship. Someone who wants to make a life together with me. That seems to be the hard part.
I have a lot of pressure from friends and family to settle down (as if It's super easy!). I honestly don't know how all of these women around me have done it. I have a hard time getting a guy to commit to a date let alone commit to me.
But any guy I seem to be able to get doesn't treat me right. The guys who do treat women right aren't interested in me. I guess I'm not good enough :( I'm starting to feel as though it's never going to happen for me. I just don't get it. I'm a great person, I would make any guys life easier, and have a lot to offer a guy. Why can't I seem to find a guy?
If a guy is interested, it seems like I have to push for anything to happen. I have to ask for dates, I have to plan them and pay for them too. Sometimes the guy pays. But most of the time I pay and drive to see them and drive us around. I don't get it. What is so horrible about me that men don't feel motivated to go after me?
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You are attracting the wrong guys, sometimes we don't know we do it. But your self confidence must not be that high because that's why you get the shifty guys. Your so young too why are you trying to settle down so quickly. I don't know why women think they need to settle before 30. Half of the time you end up with the wrong person and get divorced. You need to take your time and start looking for men that are completely different from what you've had before. You need to tell your friends and family to back off. You are a strong, respectful woman and won't settle for someone that doesn't deserve you. Some that treats you just as great as you treat them. Focus on yourself and your happiness, that doesn't involve a man and he'll show up one day. But you need to be open to other possibilities.0