Most Helpful Guy
if I know it's only temporary and she's close enough that I can drive to her from time to time...
if she's sitting thousands of km away the risk is too big because one has to change the country forever, leave their friends and family behind, probably speak a different language, etc.
you need to be really dedicated to pull that off and be 100% sure both really want it. and for me that's difficult with someone I haven't seen before0
Most Helpful Girl
If I truly love the guy and want a future with him.1