I was curious and made a fake male account. I had no picture up, just had my likes and such on there. I got so many messages and likes.
It could be how you are presenting yourself. Try writing different things, or take a better picture if you use one.
On the flip side, being a woman is not as easy on these sites. You get bombarded with messages, and they are usually very unsavory. The let's sex, send nudes, or they just send dick pics type of ones. Then when you get rejected, the guys become very hostile and act like immature children who don't get their way.
Dating sites are just another social media engine for women. Social media - Twitter/Instagram/Facebook... they are all made for women. It is just another realm for them to gain fast attention from males and females a like.
Women love it when a man or men cater to them and instantly write comments on their images.
It's the same thing on dating sites. Have you ever been on a dating site, leave a dating site after a couple of week and then return to the dating site a year later? You will see mostly the same women that were there last time, but they changed up their images. You would think that women who are that pretty would have already found a man.
Women just use those engines to get more attention and nothing more.
That might be true but you have to realize that you aren't guaranteed of finding actual love even if you have that many matches. I've been on dating sites and have gotten MANY messages however a lot of them were from guys I weren't compatible with or didn't feel interested in. It's only much much later after many tries and dates that I ended up finding my boyfriend.
Funny because I made a fake male profile before and got just as many messages and likes with that one. You're probably just ugly or not presenting your own profile well enough, obviously a male model type of guy gets get more likes and messages than your average Joe. Use your brain..
If you don't like them then don't use them. Seems a simple enough answer.
You can only "blame" the guys for that. They were the ones hitting you up, no one made them. All that fake woman you invented did was be there. How is guys making a choice to view your profile "sexist" ?
Dude, You REALLY have too much time on your hands.
Dating sites are strongly stacked towards men, because of the internet anonymity and not direct responsibility - aka not saying things into someones face - more guys dare to approach girls. This causes an imbalance where the demand is higher than the supply and this generates a higher position of power for women on those sites. Sexual economics it is called.
Naturally when there are more suitors than usually, those women will also be more picky due to it. Thus as a guy its best to stay away from online dating sites, grow a pair and approach girls in the real world.
i think that they will always set you up with a person slightly off, so it takes longer to find a loved one. if they would put you up with the right person every time they would go bankrupt. if they set you up with people you dont really match with then more people will be using their site and on a longer more consistent basis.
Don't worry bruh... Women choose scumsuckers for partners... This is true regardless of how much of a choice they have. And even on dating sites, the most attention that women get are from assholes... Smart successful guys stay the hell away from dating sites
I've sent this exact message to every single woman I've matched with on POF "Hey, you looked like a really interesting person to talk to, so i thought i would see if you wanted to chat." not a single damn reply...
Can you get a good date outsid of the Internet? If your using Pamela Anderson as a profile pic and applying the phrase "looking for FWB" then yes you will get more likes. Girls are different. You have to say more on your profile to attract them. If you have the right profile you don't need a picture
Banned? Let's think this through for a second. Do you know what happens when a woman who is used to having her ass kissed suddenly stops receiving that attention? They go the fuck off like you just smacked the crack pipe out of a fiend's mouth.