I don't think I can handle the guy I'm with fast lifestyle. He's in the entertainment business & honestly I don't know if I can handle all the parties and what all goes in that. I love him a lot & that's where I become torn in between the two. I've known him for 3years, two years we've been building a relationship but within this last year we started to like each other a lot, he told me he loves me and I lost my virhinity to him. So there's attachment there. Now he was not always into the entertainment business just happened I would say a few months ago before he had his own sneaker store but lost it due to bankruptcy which had him really depressed & pushed me away. To now he's just getting back on his feet and I'm very happy for him that he find a new career choice that he's satisfied with but I feel like it's drifting us apart. How can I approach him with the situation without sounding selfish?
How to tell him I can't handle his lifestyle?
What Guys Said 1
Wanting happiness isn't selfish. We get into relationships to be happy and if we're not then get out. You're doing harm to yourself. Tell him "I really like you but I can't do or deal with your lifestyle anymore. It isn't me"0
What Girls Said 2
He should not have to change his lifestyle for you
If you want it to work talk about it but in all honestly it's his life0
You already knew about his lifestyle before. I doubt anything you can say will make him change.0
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