I am ashamed... i am scared to death i won't find him ever... what can i do? i want to date someone... i only kissed 3 guys in my life so far... i feel people think i am weird... what should i do? now i feel a social outcast...
Most Helpful Guy
Ok hun I'm gonna be a complete ass right now and idc. I've seen some of your questions about this. 24 and never had a boyfriend Yada Yada yada... You need to stop feeling sorry for yourself because it will get you know where. Get your life on track. You dont need a guy to have fun. You need to live your own life have fun. Go out. Flirt with strangers. Dance party clubbing all that fun shit. Once you stop looking he'll come around. Just stop with these questions cuz its only making yourself feel worse about life than it really is.1
Most Helpful Girl
You are looking at this the wrong way. I had never kissed someone until 23, so I understand. You say you are "ashamed" and you feel that people view you as "weird." Oh well. Wanting a relationship to mitigate these effects is not the right attitude. You need to be happy where you are in your own life (happy enough that the prospect of living on your own is not saddening) in order for you to bring your whole self to a relationship. A relationship doesn't make someone who they are. It only accentuates them. They are still an individual person. You are trying to define yourself by your relationship status. That is not who you are. You are you, not a relationship. Keep thinking this way and when you do finally meet someone you like, you'll come off as desperate.0