I am ashamed... i am scared to death i won't find him ever... what can i do? i want to date someone... i only kissed 3 guys in my life so far... i feel people think i am weird... what should i do? now i feel a social outcast...
Ok hun I'm gonna be a complete ass right now and idc. I've seen some of your questions about this. 24 and never had a boyfriend Yada Yada yada... You need to stop feeling sorry for yourself because it will get you know where. Get your life on track. You dont need a guy to have fun. You need to live your own life have fun. Go out. Flirt with strangers. Dance party clubbing all that fun shit. Once you stop looking he'll come around. Just stop with these questions cuz its only making yourself feel worse about life than it really is.
You are looking at this the wrong way. I had never kissed someone until 23, so I understand. You say you are "ashamed" and you feel that people view you as "weird." Oh well. Wanting a relationship to mitigate these effects is not the right attitude. You need to be happy where you are in your own life (happy enough that the prospect of living on your own is not saddening) in order for you to bring your whole self to a relationship. A relationship doesn't make someone who they are. It only accentuates them. They are still an individual person. You are trying to define yourself by your relationship status. That is not who you are. You are you, not a relationship. Keep thinking this way and when you do finally meet someone you like, you'll come off as desperate.
there is nothing wrong with that. everyone comes to these things in their own time :)
Good riddance. Why would you want a man in your life. Were you women not taught to be independent and self sufficient in life. All a man will do is cheat lie and fuck you over. Men are pussies anyway, thanks to feminism
You don't want a boyfriend, you want social validation.
Do you really want a boyfriend? It doesn't sound as though you do, and there's nothing wrong with that. Some people are simply not interested in love or sex but, unfortunately, we are all so bombarded by sexually-charged messages it is easy to feel you are the odd one out.
It may be that you will be interested in romantic relationships at some later period. Until then, don't believe everything your friends say about their sexuality. People boast, lie and exaggerate about their liaisons and experiences.
You don't need to defend yourself if people bring up the subject, but it might be best to say something like: ''I'm currently focused on other things.''
If you do begin to feel you would like to explore dating, or if you begin to have sexual feelings, let your intuition guide you rather than making an attempt to prove you're just like everyone else.
go on dating sites/apps, go to bars, clubs, libraries, there's sooo many places to find cute guys you can date, don't be ashamed, you just have to be social and flirt, remember looks bring the guy in (so be well put together & stuff) but personality keeps them around (be yourself).