My boyfriend has been ignoring me for no reason at all. I even asked if he was mad at me and he said no. But yet he never talks to me and never wants to see me/hangout with me unless he wants something from me like money (to borrow). I just feel like I mean nothing to him and I'm a random stranger bothering him but when it comes to him asking me to borrow money that's the only time he treats me good. I just don't know what to do anymore. Should I just ignore him back for a few days and then talk to him? Or should I just talk to him and say "we need to talk"? I did an EXPIREMENT by getting a texting app so that way he doesn't know who I am and he was replying back fast to me on that app (still doesn't know who I am), replies all the time and treats that person (me) well. But at the same time I texted him from my phone asking if he was okay and still NO reply. What should I do?
Most Helpful Guy
just dump him. why would you play into his games by creating fake text accts, or ignoring him.
he ignores you, uses you for money... just end the relationship1
Most Helpful Girl
Leave? You've asked this question before and it should be clear to everyone and yourself that he's just using you. If you haven't talked yet, which would be surprising if you haven't, yes, have a talk with him about how you feel and see whether or not you guys can come to a solution about it. Don't play games, don't ignore him to see if it'll have an impact. Tell him that you do not feel like he treats you like a girlfriend and that it seems like he only contacts you when he needs something from you. If this continues after your talk or if he completely brushes it off as if it's not happening, then break up with him.1