He never wants to go out on dates or we plan something he always cancels. He doesn't want to invite me to hang out with him and his other friends unless it's just at his house. But he texts me all the time. We can text for hours sometimes. Am I just the girl he goes to when he's bored? When I stop talking to him and tell him to leave me alone because he gives me mixed signals and I'm just not into this weird situation, he then tells me he misses me. What's the deal?
Most Helpful Guy
he could be extremely shy about dating or have some fear of commitment
or he simply isn't THAT into you but when he wants attention or an ego boost he contacts you1
Most Helpful Girl
yeah he texts you when he's bored for an ego boost. it makes him feel good knowing that someone likes him, even if he doesn't like you back. stop wasting your time with him and block him. you deserve a guy who can't wait to hang out with you and loves being around u2