If she's not into your first message (or whenever she's not feeling it), would you prefer to be ignored, or for her to respond anyway? I'm new to this and curious. I don't want people to walk away feeling like no one cared to respond, but I dont like certain comments (first time messages focused on looks/sex appeal) and I'm not attracted to some guys.
Also, what if I wanted to know his height, and its not listed? Should I asked?
Most Helpful Guy
i remember when i was doing online dating being annoyed by the lack of responses and feeling like it would be polite to respond... but my rational side realized that there would be too many responses to make and i'm sure some guys would get a response sort of turning him down and then respond with some impassioned plea for a re-evaluation or maybe even some rude tirade about the girl
i don't think it's necessary to respond when not interested unless you feel you really need to explain something0
Most Helpful Girl
I figure it's best to ignore them rather than just lead them on. I would write everyone in the beginning because I didn't want to be mean but I had no intention of meeting any of them so I wasn't really doing them any favors.0