Hi, so I've read a few things about men 'pulling away' from a woman every now and then as they need their space. I was just wondering a couple of things, would be interested in hearing from guys, but girls feel free to answer too.
1. How can you tell if he just needs a bit of space, or is losing interest?
2. How long should the girl wait before giving up?
3. Should you text him once, or leave him alone completely?
4. What if he comes back after a few weeks, and you've given up and moved on?
Usually I wait about 2 weeks before completely giving up and moving on, but sometimes the guy has come back after that, and then I feel conflicted.
I don't usually text, but I did it once, just a casual offer of drinks, but I felt like I was hassling him.
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You should drop the hint about going out once. If he doesn't set a date. No contact for a week. Then try one more time. If he doesn't set a date. No contact period. If he contacts you after you have tried twice, you are a back up plan and he will only be using you. There are so many incredible guys out there. A man needs to feel you have options otherwise he will take you for granted and use you. That's all you need to know about men. The reason women think guys only want S@x is because they hang on to a guy who doesn't like them. Find the guy who worships you. That's the guy you want. Those people are rare and keepers. You'll figure that out one day.2
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