That's who I call fuckboys. Those idiots don't care about shit other than having sex and it's so sad. Never date them. People like me don't care as much about the physical stuff and would rather get to know you. I love passionate girls that are smart, funny, energized, positive, behave like themselves and don't fake things so a guy likes them etc. so ultimately yeah, there are guys interested in relationships and not just... sex😑.
It's because you're talking to guys online lol. Some of those nasty guys have one hand on the keyboard and one hand somewhere else *PUKES* Don't get me started about Omegle.
You sound like you just want a friend. Your best bet might be a guy who is already taken or talking to a guy in person. You would *think* he wouldn't have any interest if he was taken. It's easier to detect alternative motivations if you see the person and their body language.
Anyways, feel free to shoot me a message if you just want a friend, I have no interest for a relationship or sex, considering I'm already married to a laboratory.
Get to know, have a relationship and then have sex, or just get to to know. Otherwise you're just describing a platonic friend. Make sure to let known in your profile you want a relationship. You will still get sexts but just ignore them. Can you find guys out there who don't want only sex, yes. Make sure you're no Tinder or something, point of apps like Tinder is to hook up.