Im 24 he's 38 with a son thats 18. My mom said "Hell no" he's a nice guy but I dont want kids until 10 years from now. Were at different stages in life. I do like him but I dont think it will ever work.
Most Helpful Guy
You're closer in age to his son, don't you think that's a little awkward?
If you felt like you were both kind of at the same stage in life and were 100% ready for that kind of relationship, then fine, it's a rather large age gap but you're 24, IMHO that's old enough to decide to be with someone that much older if that's what you want... but it sounds like you're not ready for that kind of relationship yet, and you know it, but are having difficulty saying "no".
The age difference isn't "bad", it's this particular situation that is.
Most Helpful Girl
It's up to you, really. If you don't think it will work out, there's a good chance that you're right. It depends on what you're comfortable with. Personally, I wouldn't be comfortable dating someone whose child was closer to my age than my partner was. You're old enough to make this decision for yourself, but I think if you have to ask, you already kind of know the answer.0